Two weeks in

Yesterday was my second infusion, or the second part of my first cycle of chemotherapy intended to destroy the Classic Hodgkin’s Lymphoma which my body decided to add to itself. A landmark along the path I have to travel. There will be more but I’m just not sure what they will be yet. My hair is starting to fall out, so, I guess, going bald will be another landmark, and then, hopefully, maybe, it will grow back and that will be another landmark. The strange thing is that it seems only to be the grey hair which is falling out and this is leading to my seeming to have less, but darker, hair. My wife who has been saying that she can’t see the difference just looked at me said, “You’re right, your hair is falling out!” Very cheering!

I was full of positives as I explained to my oncologist, Dr Tache, just how pleased I was with all the things that hadn’t gone wrong as a result of the chemo, but, then, I got onto the occasional cough and the occasional tight feeling in my chest and we began talking antibiotics, and then Dr Tache was telling me that my bloodworks results showed a white cell count of only 0.5 which is very low. White blood cells are there as part of the body’s defences against disease and foreign objects and the number of them are an indicator of disease. In this case the disease they are losing to is the chemical concoction pumped into my body to save my life. Some disease eh? Anyway, as Dr Tache told me, “I have to knock you down before I can build you up again.” This led onto a discussion of how to remedy this, and Dr Tache’s recommendation was for an injection of Neulasta, a drug developed to deal with the effects of chemotherapy-induced nutropenia.  Naturally, as this is a drug, there may be side-effects. Dr Tache said it will hurt. Audrey, the oncology nurse who worked with me yesterday, also told me it would hurt, and today the nurse who gave me the injection recommended that I take Tylenol before the injection in order to minimise the pain I am expected to experience as the nutropenia makes my bones produce more white blood cells than they otherwise would. Still, it’s better to have this done than to contract some infection and end up dying isn’t it? Anyway, so far, I’ve not felt any pain from this process, maybe tomorrow will be different, hopefully it won’t as I’m not keen on pain and I’d rather not pump any more drugs into my body than I have to.

The oncology room was pretty busy yesterday but was still full of the good humour generated by the nursing staff, Audrey, Lisa and Pamela, all of whom always had a smile and a word for all the patients. How they achieve this I really don’t know. There was one lady there whom I felt like telling to shut up and wait a minute after an incessant and repetitive questioning as to where Lisa was, as she, the patient, wanted her oxygen changing. The fact the Lisa had gone for the replacement cylinder seemed to have been lost on this lady. There was another chap there who was so desperate to get away that he was squeezing the bag to try to speed things up despite Audrey telling him that doing so could blow the pump which actually regulated the speed of the drip so that it got to his body at the correct rate. There was another lady there who, if I understood her correctly, was going through cancer for the third time and was incredibly positive and supportive of everyone else in the room. The lady I was sitting next to noticed that I was doing the “steering wheel tom-tom” on my chair arm to the rhythm of her pump and we laughed about how the sounds coming out the pump sounded so musically rhythmic – 1,2,3 & 4, 1,2,3 & 4. I know I’ve made reference to this before but, since joining this not particularly desirable “cancer club,” I’ve been more than surprised by the amazing positivity and good humour shown by all whom I have encountered, not only in the oncology room but also on the blogs. When I hear stories as I did yesterday, and read on the blogs about all that some bloggers are having to overcome or to deal, with I feel very humble and very, very, fortunate to have a curable cancer and the support of a loving family.

Something which struck me is on the blog byoldermanyoungerman talking about being depressed after being cured. Now that was a novel thought for me! I hadn’t got so far ahead of myself. Yes, I’m staying positive and am sure I will be cured but thinking of my emotional state in four or five months time I’d only thought I would be ecstatic. Like oldermanyoungerman it had never occurred to me that I might have “a confused feeling–almost as if my cancer has abandoned me.” Now I need to give that possibility some thought. I’m not sure that is how I will view it, but I can imagine feeling some kind of hole in my life simply because a lot of energy goes into having cancer, it’s never far from my thoughts, the physical effects of the cancer and the chemo are pretty much in evidence all the time and now I’m checking clothing and  for falling hair. So I don’t think it will be exactly like mourning as oldermanyoungerman suggests, but more the absence of “a need to” do something. I will no longer be focussed on defeating this malevolent growth that arrived uninvited in my body. I have very little to compare that feeling to. The closest I can come is to go back to the first day after I had taken my finals for my B.Ed. It was a day I had been looking forward to for a long time. I remember it was a sunny day so I had taken a chair into the garden to read a book which I had been looking forward to reading for a long time. I sat in the chair and made myself comfortable.The sun was warm. The grass beneath my bare feet was cool and slightly damp with dew. Life was GOOD! My eyes started to work down the page. I read a couple of lines and then went back and re-read them, again and again. Eventually I had read a whole paragraph before having to go back and re-read it. Something felt wrong. Not with the book I was reading. Not with the physical circumstances, but, somehow, with me. I must have spent half an hour or so trying to read that first page and eventually the penny dropped. I realised that, for the first time in three years, I was going to read for pleasure and I’d forgotten how to do it. I could only read with a pencil to hand in order that I could annotate the text. Could only read with an intent to evaluate the characterisation, the plot, the style of the author and so on, but I couldn’t just read the damned book because I wanted to enjoy it! I suspect the correspondent quoted by oldermanyoungerman is correct in suggesting “I think there’s a huge rush of the tide to get you back as though nothing happened. To reassemble the picture that you had before,” That’s what I tried to do that day in the garden, to reassemble my reading skills just as they’d been before university, and it took me a long time to get over that and blend the old skills with the new. I need to remember that lesson when it comes to life without cancer.

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